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A rough outline of personal philosophy in 6 points.

  1. The enemy of a good plan is the dream of a perfect plan.
  2. It is better to act — for at least upon acting, life has to respond.
  3. Noblesse Oblige.
  4. Do not regret what you have done.
  5. Never let yourself be saddened by a separation.
  6. Do not let yourself be guided by the feeling of lust or love.

1. The dream of a perfect plan...

A perfect plan will always remain just that — a dream. This speaks to the common tendency toward over-engineering or paralysis by analysis. Action, even if imperfect, invites feedback and evolution. Perfection is an illusion; movement is power. The world might be either marvellous or dreadful if perfect plans were possible — but reality does not allow for such perfection. You may want the project you're working on to be the best it can be. While there is no shame in aiming high, you must also accept this: "The enemy of a good plan is the dream of a perfect plan."

2. It is better to act...

Action forces the world to respond. Inaction is stagnation. When you act, you introduce change, give form to your will, and shape reality around your intent. In some situations, the most powerful thing you can do is simply to do something. Act. Act first. Reality is now different — everything else must adjust to that fact. Yes, action involves risk and the potential for disruption, but hesitation carries risk too, and it only grows with time.

3. Noblesse Oblige

With ability and prosperity comes responsibility. Those with knowledge, insight, excess wealth, or strength owe it to others to act with honour. This might mean teaching, sharing ideas, or funding causes you believe in. It’s not about superiority, but stewardship — using what you have not for domination, but for the betterment of others and the world around you.

4. Do not regret what you have done

Regret anchors you in the past. Learn from your actions, but do not dwell on them. Own your choices — let them become foundations, not chains. Brooding over regret, regardless of the cause, clouds your clarity, weakens your resolve, and binds you to a past that no longer exists. Every action is a choice. If you’ve made a mistake, recognise it as part of growth — it means you’ve learned something. Regret, however, often implies disowning that choice, which undermines your ability to be humble and to improve.

5. Never let yourself be saddened by a separation

Everything in life is transient. True strength comes from balancing attachment with detachment — to let go without bitterness, to appreciate without clinging. When you're too attached to where you are or whom you know, you prevent yourself from exploring new places and meeting new people. It's worth noting the two kinds of separation: temporary and permanent. Embrace both with the same spirit. Remember how rare it was to have ever crossed paths — and take comfort in the thought that, wherever they are, they may still be blessing the world with their presence. If they are gone forever, then let go of the illusion of permanence. People, animals, places, even gods — none last forever. Memento Mori.

6. Do not let yourself be guided by lust or love

Emotion can cloud judgement. Romantic or carnal desire can distort your purpose. Lead with clarity, not impulse. Affection may follow — but it must not lead. To give in to lust is to tether your mind to craving and impulsiveness. The only thing arguably worse than lust is gluttony — and the two are of the same root. Love, however, can be a beautiful force — but romantic or sentimental attachment can twist your path, distract your focus, or lead you to ruin. The sorrow, longing, or joy that accompanies love can easily steer you away from your goals. That said, this is not always a bad thing. Love, when wholesome and true, should not be denied — only understood.